Actually,
he was supposed to retire on January 1, but he just couldn’t help
himself. Breaking away from a daily routine that has lasted for over 60
years is not something that can be done overnight. Our small family
workshop is in the same location that it was in 1951 when the first
generation Hacko commenced the watchmaking business.
Dad will retire on a monthly pension of 300 Euros. Which is plenty for a
man who barely needs anything. Being the oldest son, it is now my duty
to provide for mum and dad. In return, I am also expected to take over
the family shop and continue the trade - closing the shop down or
renting it out would be disgrace and an insult to our family name. This
is going to be quite the challenge, considering that the shop is located
18,000 km away from Sydney.
The transition itself is exactly as expected: painful. I had to call mum
last night with the firm demand that dad hands over the keys
immediately, without further delay. My younger brother has already
organised an electrician, plumber and painter; so the stock has to be
put in storage, and bench tools taken home.
At 82, dementia is slowly creeping in. He has no hobbies; he does not
have a pet. While he is still fine behind the work bench, he struggles
with basic stuff: unsure of the day of the week, or who is related to
whom. He is stubbornly unwilling to do even basic bookkeeping or keep a
social distance, or wear a mask. A few weeks ago, on the way to work, he
fell off his pushbike and bruised himself badly, yet failed to tell mum
about the accident. "So I wouldn't be even allowed to stop by the new
shop? And who is going to do all the repairs?" - he asks over and over
again.
Right now, I have no answers to his questions. What has to be done, has
to be done, and done sooner rather than later. Time waits for no one.
[to be continued...]
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